Garden

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It is smaller but looks so much nicer. Promise.

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Wordle

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Get yours here.

I love playing with words on the site. I even see it as a potential scrapbook page. Get yours and link me up. I wanna see.

You would also be surprised with the words that would come up, trust me :)

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Out of Break.

Last night, Edil sent me an SMS at around 12MN telling me that the jeep ran out of breaks and he almost collided with a car. Good thing he was driving slowly (a first, mind you) and that a nearby gas station was nearby.

I told him to bring his father’s RevO when he goes home tonight as Im not comfortable with him driving the jeep even if it’s fixed. He still wouldnt budge even if fuel prices had two-peso rollbacks for the past weeks. The RevO drinks like a horse when it comes to gasoline. He’d rather bring the jeep instead. So Im worried to death. I need to check if there are auto insurance comparisons I can present to him for the jeep.

Im Going to Cebu.

I have a frustration.
Edil and I have never travelled out of town just the two of us at all. Not ever.

Everytime I bring the subject up, Edil would tell me, “Sure. Go ahead.” but Im always met with empty enthusiasm. It’s not that we are going on cruises or anything fancy – Im talking about an overnight stay in Tagaytay which is, I need to emphasize, a mere 15 minutes away from home.

Now Im going to Cebu on January next year to meet Glo and roam around hopefully and I want to take him with me.

I might as well be talking to a wall.
Hmpfff.

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I Love Fridays.

It is even better even if I dont work away from home. When I was still working, I had odd day-offs (weekdays or Sun-Mon) so Fridays had no bearing for me.

Not now though. I love Fridays.

Because 1) I can sleep in late because there is no school the next day. 2) Edil comes home and I can sleep soundly at night – no waking up every hour or so. 3) The kids detach themselves from me and compete for attention with their Dad. I LOVE EET :) 4) Usually, Fridays are the days when PayPal money arrives so by mid week next week, Im a thousand bucks richer – depending if I have been working my a** off or not :)

Yep.
Let it be known, I Love Fridays.

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NPA.

We might as well be classified as NPAs – people with no permanent address.

All my mail are still addressed and forwarded to Manila. I still dont trust that I will receive mail here. Imagine, at my parents’ place, their address is “—-, Bgy. Dagatan, —-, ——”. No numbers, no street, no anything. Dagatan is like how many kilometers?!?!?!!?

Now, our house doesnt have an address. The owner doesnt know the address. So we are camping out on “their” house’s address! I used their address to apply for my internet access’ relocation and by golly wow, Id be so mad if the antenna would be put into their house.

There is a story behind this NPA thing.
Im just too busy to get into details but I promise it is a funny one :P
Maybe next time.

Bugs and Crawling Things

The only downside in living in the province is you get to be acquainted with almost all kinds of bugs – the flying, the crawling, the ones that make noises, and the worse – the ones that bite. Our delicate skin, accustomed to airconditioning, is a favorite biting place. You should see my arms.

It is ironic that my lungs get fresh air while my skin needs to toughen up like a cow’s hide to be able to withstand the bugs at night. Otherwise, Id need to use a kulambo (mosquito net) soon.

Or maybe I need to a bed frame for our bed.
Other than that, I have developed courage and have been squashing spiders as big as my hand (I kid you not) without batting an eyelash.

I just open my mouth, scream and then close my eyes and try to hit the target.

More Needs

Well, it is basically wants for now.

We need more furniture. I want to replace our dining set, order bed frames (switch from a king to a queen), get a new bed frame for Matthew’s bed. Get console tables. Lamps. Everything that you would want to beautify your home, basically.

We saw a made to order furniture store (who sells palo china, which are basically refurbished lumber made into nice stuff) and the quotes they gave us were staggeringly cheap. So cheap that I can even order two bed frames in a month with my just 20% of my sideline earnings. But we need to basically budget everything first. We can avail of the cash advance being offered at Edil’s office but that can be used in real cases of emergency (like one of us getting hospitalized or for the kid’s tuition fee).

I realized having your own turf really makes you a queen, I just wish I can have the money to make it like a comfortable mini-palace for us.

It Gets Lonely

Really.

I wish I can put into words the loneliness I feel everytime the night creeps in and Im the only adult in the house. Even during the day, I dont have a decent companion to talk my common interests too, save for the laundrywoman who is actually a doll and my parents – but there is a limit in things you would like to talk about.

It has been more pronounced with our internet-less house (I applied for relocation connection by the way today).

What can I say. I really miss the husband everyday.
It doesnt get easier, even with me having the kids all by myself all day.

13 Things I Have Learned in Moving Houses

1. It is easier to pack boxes by the room. That way, you unpack easily. Unpack boxes in their designated rooms.

2. You realize how much useless clutter you have.

3. You realized which stuff you really need.

4. Moving houses lets you get rid of stuff. We moved houses twice in three months – and I still got rid of boxes and sold them which gave me enough to cover rent for both houses for two months.

5. I still have so much stuff though. Somehow, I need to give things away still.

6. It is better to invest on furniture and appliances than clothes and toys.

7. Do NOT have the internet connected while unpacking. Use it as a prize to get motivated to unpack all boxes first. (Im an internet junkie).

8. Always unpack and make sure you have a working kitchen once you move. You need to eat and feed your family.

9. Have lots of trash bags.

10. Keep moving boxes. You will never know when you would need it.

11. If you have kids, make sure the entertainment center – in my case, TV and DVD player with cartoon movies – is ready to use when they arrive. Or else you will never get anything done.

12. Hire help. If you can afford to. Help is cheap here so I hired :) . Im not going to be superwoman and do all the unpacking and storing by myself.

13. Purge. Delete. Destroy. Give away. Sell. I practice the “If I havent used or touched it within the last three months, it needs to go.” Clutter is less, Im happier.

This is the first time Im joining TT :)